Dateme

Trying to find a date that suits everybody?

Pick the days that could work, send one link, and watch the answers land. Dateme marks the date the most people can make, and everyone you invited can see it forming. No account, nothing to install, no cookie banner.

Free. No sign-up, no e-mail address, no app. What it stores.

One week of messages to book one evening

Eight people, eight calendars, and a thread where every reply invalidates the last one. Somebody suggests Thursday, two people miss it, and it starts again.

Offer the days you could actually do, share the link, and let each person tick what suits them. The thread stops.

Pick from a calendar rather than a list, up to sixty days across as many months as you need.

Nobody signs up for anything

Not you, and not the people you are asking. No account, no e-mail address, no app to install, and nothing to agree to before answering.

Press Create and it exists. Two links come back: one you keep for editing, one you send to everybody else.

No cookies at all, no analytics, no third-party scripts, and the fonts come from here rather than from anyone else.

Everyone can watch the answer form

The usual arrangement is that one person can see the results and the rest have to ask how it is going. That person then becomes the bottleneck.

Here everyone who was sent the link sees the same page: every date, how many can make it, and the names underneath.

The date most people can make is marked as answers come in, so the decision is usually obvious before the last reply arrives.

Three steps, no sign-up

  1. 1

    Press Create

    Give it a title, then tap the days you could do straight from the calendar. Change your mind as often as you like.

  2. 2

    Share one link

    Everyone you are asking gets the same link. They write their name and tick the dates that suit them.

  3. 3

    See who can make what

    Each date shows a count and the names behind it, with the best so far marked. Keep your own link: it is the only key to the event.

Get the date settled today

It takes a minute to set up and a moment to answer. Anyone holding the create link can edit the dates, so keep that one to yourself, and read what Dateme stores before putting anything sensitive in a title.